(Newswire.net — May 19, 2022) –The death of a loved one is often a traumatic and difficult time. Although many have likely been to arrangements at numerous funeral events, there is common faux pas during the funeral that keep on repeating themselves or going unnoticed. Here are eight common faux pas that could be causing harm to funeral planning and how to avoid them.
1. Buying Too Many Flowers
Although flowers can be a beautiful tribute towards the person who has passed, they mustn’t overdo it as this is where most people go wrong. If your loved one had too many arrangements in a wardrobe full of flowers, the room can be overwhelmed and should be simplified. The act is avoided by providing a minimal amount of flowers with an appropriate gesture.
2. Not Planning Ahead
If you didn’t plan and expect a lot of people to attend your loved one’s funeral, then it could be hard to throw a party afterward. Many guests can reduce the energy and space needed for a remembrance service. To avoid this, plan and make sure you have enough food, drinks, and seating for family members, friends, and any attendees who may be stopping by.
3. Not Understanding the Type of Funeral the Person Wanted
Just because you’ve made a few arrangements doesn’t mean you know the exact kind of service to expect. Understand that this is your first time planning a funeral, so take time to learn from other families and hear their stories about their loved ones first.
4. Not Leaving Enough Food and Drinks
People must stay hydrated during times of sadness as tears can sometimes lead to dehydration. If people don’t eat, they may not be able to focus on the grieving people. Remind guests that eating is a great way to unwind and improve their mood. Having and planning for enough food and drinks can help.
5. Not Planning a Remembrance Service
Planning will help the family and friends gather even though it doesn’t have to be elaborate or long. It can also give them time to reflect on their loved one who has passed away. setting aside space for a few minutes of quiet reflection and focusing on memories can be of help.
6. Planning to Wear All Black
Although it is good for family members to dress in black, it’s best to avoid large gatherings in all black. You never know who will come and mourn the loss of your loved one, so always be dressed formally from head to toe.
7. Not Sending Out Funeral Invitations
Send out invitations at least two weeks before the date of the funeral. It gives ample time for those traveling or who need to make arrangements with their employer.
8) Not Including a Program
It is important to showcase what will happen in the tribute to the person who has passed. A program also gives people an opportunity to see who else is in attendance or other organizations involved.
To avoid these common funeral planning faux pas, remember that funerals are often held because of sadness and grief and are often family-oriented, so if you’re having trouble planning one, please reach out to a professional who can help guide you through the process.