(Newswire.net — July 20, 2019) — For anyone that’s read extensively about weight loss it’s clear that there’s a simple tried and tested solution to this conundrum. It isn’t rocket science or something that can only be achieved by those in positions of power or the wealthy. Whether your personal goal is to lose a few pounds or a complete body shape change, it’s something we can all achieve with regular exercise and a balanced diet. If you burn more calories than you consume you’ll lose weight. Simple, right?
There is one outstanding issue that many men discover despite knowing the magic formula that holds us back from not only achieving our weight loss goals but maintaining them in the long term to prevent the weight piling back on. No matter how enthusiastic we are or how well we plan our exercise routines or meal plans, there’s something most of us experience that slows our progress. That road block is motivation.
Setting targets and succeeding isn’t always enough, but one thing does exist that can offer a fantastic incentive for achieving our weight loss goals; orgasms! According to medical experts there are potentially health benefits from having orgasms due to the chemicals and hormones released by the body at the point of ejaculation. Also, they just feel great, so there’s that. The question is, what would you do to earn your next orgasm if the opportunity to have sex with your partner or masterbate was taken away from you until you met a preset target? Would you spend a little extra time at the gym or out walking each day if it meant that you got to cum? I know I would!
Having enough discipline to stick with your gym schedule if it means getting up early in the morning is one thing, but if the opportunity presents itself for you to get laid comes around are you strong enough to reject it? There is a solution that will take that choice away from you, and some of you might think it’s quite extreme, but from the number of people I’ve discussed this topic with that have tried male chastity the results have been very positive. This involves locking your penis in a chastity cage, a device that prevents you from directly pleasuring yourself, and either handing over the key to a loved one, your partner or someone you trust.
“I thought chastity was just a religious practise where people abstain from sex before marriage?” some of you might ask. Actually, it’s also a very popular kink that some in the fetish community voluntarily do for a variety of reasons. Some submissive males offer their dominant partners, known as a keyholder, the key to their chastity cage to show devotion to them, or to earn their release only once they’ve done enough to earn it. You could earn your release through servitude, completing a set list of tasks or, in our case, losing a certain amount of weight over a predetermined time period.
“Come on, can locking a cage to my penis really help me lose weight?” I hear you ask. Well, I spoke to a lady, her own partner and a number of her clients that say it does. Mistress K runs the male chastity website House of Denial and is a lifestyle dominatrix. She sells chastity devices to men and some of them use these products for exactly this reason. Her partner also tried this as an experiment with very positive results. Here’s how it works according to her.
Discuss your goals with your partner or someone you trust
Approach your partner or someone you know that’s local who can hold the key in a safe place for you. You don’t have to tell the person that you’ve chosen to lock your penis up or that you’ll be wearing a chastity device, but having them keep the key will prevent you from simply unlocking yourself whenever you like.
Discuss with the person your weight loss target and a release reward program. For example, if you lose 1lb per week, which is generally considered to be a healthy amount to lose in that space of time, you get to be unlocked and rewarded for your achievement. Involving your partner, husband or wife can enhance the experience and make it a fun game.
Purchase the right chastity cage
You’re going to be exercising while you wear the cage, so it needs to be lightweight, waterproof so that you can shower with it still on, and have a low profile so it’s not obvious that you’re wearing it under clothing. A cage with an internal lock instead of a padlock is generally better as it’s less bulky and more discreet.
Bioresin cages are ideal as they’re easy to clean and quite light, so you’ll likely forget you’re wearing it most of the time. They offer good security, so they’re not easy to get out of, and can be picked up for reasonable money.
Create a rewards system
Exercise is just one element involved in successfully losing weight. Adjusting your diet is arguably even more important, so involve this side of your goal in a rewards system. You could take control of the meal preparation and cooking for yourself and your partner in exchange for points. As long as you earn enough points by cooking at least, for example, 5 evening meals a week this goes towards a total that includes the amount of weight you’ve lost.
Losing 2lbs in a week could earn you 2 points and cooking 5 meals a further point, which could mean you’re allowed 3 orgasms, or just 1 if you want to be a little stricter. Who needs weight watchers points when this game means really enjoyable prizes?
Enjoy this game, but do it safety
If you’ve never experienced male chastity before it’s important to understand a few things that will make your time locked up more enjoyable and safer. Using some lubricant to get your penis into the new cage is absolutely fine and even recommended. It will minimise any friction you might encounter.
Secondly, if you feel any pain at any point remove the cage and check yourself. Wearing a chastity device will stop you being able to achieve an erection and, particularly at night, this can cause some discomfort. Try sleeping with it on a few nights before you start the challenge properly and keep the key close to your bed in the event you need to remove it quickly.