(Newswire.net — August 9, 2016) — Whatever age you are, the way you connect with someone that you’re interested in dating is going to be to flirt with them. When you’re in person, it isn’t that hard to figure out how to do. However, when you’re on a dating website, that might be a little more challenging—especially if you’re someone who relies heavily on your body to help you grab someone’s attention and make your intentions clear.
With an online dating website, you’re going to have to approach flirting a little differently. Here are four ways that you can flirt online and get someone interested in you.
1. Offer a compliment. Everyone loves to be complimented from time to time, it isn’t just women who appreciate this you know. Of course, it’s quite understandable that you may not know what to compliment a man on, it isn’t that difficult. When you’re reading his profile and it is especially engrossing, you can shoot him a message complimenting him on his ability to keep you riveted. If he tells you a story where he did something brave or courageous, you can compliment him on that.
2. Share bits of your soul. When you’re writing to him, write to him in a manner that is reminiscent of the way you would talk to him—natural and personable. As you write, feel free to bare bits of your soul with him. Tell him something you may not have told anyone else, or a secret that very few people know about you. If something funny or embarrassing happened recently, share that experience. It’ll let him know that you are taking yourself too seriously, and that will help him relax and open up to you.
3. Be proud of your accomplishments. Whatever you’ve worked hard to achieve, don’t be afraid to show it off for everyone to see. We understand that it might not be the easiest thing in the world for you to talk about yourself or all the great things you’ve accomplished in your life. However, with a dating website, you’re going to need everything that makes you unique and not be shy to talk about it! You have to stand out, and the best way to do that is by singing to the rooftops all the reasons why people should be wanting to get to know you.
4. Show interest. The biggest part of flirting on a dating site is letting the other person know that you are clearly interested in them. Ask them questions that make it evident that you aren’t just trying to strike up idle chit chat. Probe into their lives and figure out a way that you can become a fixture in it. If they enjoy hiking, and you’ve always wanted to give it a shot, mention it. Ask them if they’d be willing to show you some great trails that a beginner would do well on. If they play the guitar, and you play another instrument, suggest you get together for a jam session. Whatever the case is, show them you want to spend time with them, they’ll get the hint!